There’s a special kind of twitch that happens when someone says, “Let’s hop on a quick discovery call.”
Or worse, “Boss Babe.”
Most of us have heard these phrases so many times, they’ve lost all meaning, or worse, started to feel like red flags.
I asked real business owners what words make them cringe… and wow, they did not hold back.
Of course, not everyone hates these, so if you love them, use them. You’ll attract people who resonate with your voice.
This list isn’t gospel. It’s just a peek inside what makes some of us quietly hit “unsubscribe.”
Here’s what they said and what we can all stop pretending we have to say.
Grouped by category:
Spiritual/Feel-Good Buzzwords:
Be authentic
Soulful
Manifest
Ease and flow
Empowered
Women’s empowerment
Shine
Queen
Purpose
Business Buzzwords That Need a Break:
Hustle
Boss Babe
Mompreneur
Bad Ass
Expert
Pivot
Circle back
Pain point
Discovery call
Container
Master class
AI & Sales-y Sins:
No fluff
Crickets
Fake flattery
I came across your profile…
We reviewed your website and…
Just ask me how if you’re ready
Let’s elevate your brand
Anything ending in “-preneur”
Cutesy Language That Feels Off:
Sis
Girlies
Teamwork makes the dream work
Overused Marketing Hooks & Promises
$10K months
What if I told you…
Doctors hate me.
Can you jump on a call?
Conclusion:
Language trends come and go.
What matters most is sounding like you, not a personal development brochure.
Use the words that feel right in your mouth. That attract the kind of people you actually want to work with. That don’t make you cringe when you re-read your own post.
Because if your marketing doesn’t feel honest to you, it probably won’t land with your people either.

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